Proverbs 31:11 - "... our husbands need our awe and admiration. They need to feel that they are a man amongst boys. To them, respect = love. So when we question them constantly, nag them, speak poorly of them, or speak with a condescending tone, we are refusing to meet their needs. Kyle says that a disrespectful wife is one of the ugliest things to a husband. Ouch. But he also says that if a man is respected, he will rise up to be a strong, tender leader."