let it go. put a note in the balloon of things you need to move on from, forget, and forgive, and watch it fade away as it lifts, lifts, lifts high above you until you can no longer see it. -----TAT IDEA!!
"GOD'S WORD MUST BE SO STRONGLY FIXED IN OUR MINDS that it becomes the DOMINANT INFLUENCE in our thoughts, our attitudes, and our actions. One of the most effective ways of influencing our minds is through memorizing Scripture." ~ Jerry Bridges
Your past is just a story. And once you realize this, it has no power over you. Don't dwell on the past, today is a gift, that's why we call it the present.