This is so true in my life. Not sure why I always have to be the one to reach out first. I'm done being that person, friendship is a 2 way street. If you don't have "time" to contact me, then don't expect me to contact you.
We've all had that friend who was completely rude to people and couldn't handle being called out on it. Friends tell the truth with tact and dont get secret satisfaction out of other's problems. If you can't think of anyone, it's probably you.