Exactly! I rather you tell me the truth and hurt my feelings then to lie to me because once you lie you gotta tell another lie to cover up the first lie and its just keeps repeating over and over. Honesty is the best policy always!
Anyday... Remember that someone has problems too. They could've just been broken up with.. their family member could've passed.. they could've just gotten a ticket. How are you to know unless truly knowing that person? don't judge unless you know the full