The woman came from a man's rib not from his feet to be walked on not from his head to be supiorer but from the side to be equal under the arm to be protected and next to the heart to be loved WOMEN ARE EQUAL!
Don't her all depressed over a guy (or a girl) from your past. That's like being sad because the garbage man picked up the trash. ---Not saying they are/were trash, but saying it is over, do not dwell.
twenty years form now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didnt do than by the ones you did do. so throw off the bowlines. sail away from safe harbor. catch the trade winds in your sails.