Our days are happier when we give people a bit of our heart rather than a piece of our mind kindness quote. (I need to remember this so hard. I had a really bad day yesterday and did a lot of mind giving)
I'm only responsible for what I say, not for what you understand. Although as an author I am responsible for making readers understand--a reader who doesn't understand is an unhappy reader. (And there is some value to leaving some questions unanswered.