Life is not fair.... but Jesus is so let Him make all of your decisions. Most things we suffer in life sometimes we bring on ourselves as a result of bad choices. Put God first and choose the right thing. You will suffer less in life.
So true...and easier said than done. Most people either don't want to be truly seen for who they are and are uncomfortable/afraid to be real, or are too self-absorbed be truly interested in others and take time for them. :P