This is all of the "in love"s you have before you find real love. The right person is different from every other person. The right person will take this view and turn it around completely. The right person builds this love up and it may crack, but they will never allow it to shatter. So protect your heart, but know that only false love will make you this weak.
This helps me to refocus my thoughts today, since I was doing an excellent job of judging and determining if someone deserved to be lifted, restored, and healed (none of these three were happening). Lift the fallen, restore the broken, heal the hurting.