It's when others are unlovable that they need love the most. Die to your pride and give them better than they deserve (grace) in the midst of being wronged. It's a test, definitely. But God is faithful to see us through it. Just look to Him to do so.
Even though our "thing" didn't work out..you were a wonderful gift God sent to my life. You made me realize so much about myself and saved me from a shitty relationship I had been in. Now if only I had the courage to tell you how much I appreciated you.