LOVE this. I can think of some I love very much but their expectation is so grandiose and demanding and it should really just come down to accepting each other just the way we are and loving each other just the way we are and quit trying to change people to fit our own needs. Cuz that isn't love it's called insecurity.
That one negative comment is like a knife cutting through our belief in ourselves. Some people are just that cruel to kids though :/ No parent or person in care of children would purposely be cruel their's negativity in this world thats just a fact of reality no negative=no positive...you don't do these things on purpose get a grip...???