5 Ways Wives Unwittingly Disrespect Their Husbands...perspective from a mans point of view. There should be #6. When he is explaining what is upsetting him don't automatically think he's attacking you and come back with, "it's my fault I'm to blame for everything"
How To Deal With Narcissistic People~a good article to read. Both books recommended; Why is it Always About You? The Seven Deadly Sins of Narcissism by Sandy Hotchkiss,LCSW & Will I Ever Be Good Enough? Healing the Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers by Karyl McBride, PhD; are excellent sources I have used to educate/protect myself.