attachment parenting, its sick when parents let babies cry alone. i have a ba in child development from oregon and have nannied and seen first hand. who is actualyy cold enough to not care if they cry??
"When your child is having a meltdown, remember, it's their crisis, not yours. Breathe deeply. Calm yourself. Then use a quiet voice and gentle hands to guide your little one through their crisis. That is living what you want them to learn." 'The Gentle Parent: Positive, Practical, Effective Discipline' by L.R.Knost www.littleheartsbooks.com