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When feelings fade, love is a choice, an act of the will. And when you choose love with God’s help, the emotion of love often follows. You know that once the flower of romance fades, the warts of our humanity show, and the flutter of love abandons the human heart, that the choice to love must be made.
I wish I knew the psychology behind it, but this makes sense to me. When I'm in love, it's not that the other person is invisible, I feel very attracted to that person, physically, but it's like the body type and all it's issues don't matter, I mean they matter, but they don't change how attractive that person is, to me. Know what I mean?