I wish I knew the psychology behind it, but this makes sense to me. When I'm in love, it's not that the other person is invisible, I feel very attracted to that person, physically, but it's like the body type and all it's issues don't matter, I mean they matter, but they don't change how attractive that person is, to me. Know what I mean?
I love my husband, and I love my babies. I have no regrets, because had I done anything differently, I might not have them in my world, and that is not a world in which I would want to exist.