i worry because i know that everyday we are laying the groundwork of what we are, and/or what we might be. there are times i know it is better to say nothing than to risk harm to this fragile, whatever-it-is. but i don't always stay quiet. and you... :)
when faced with two choices, simply toss a coin. it works not because it settles the question for you. but because in that brief moment, when the coin is in the air, you suddenly know what you are hoping for.