No matter where our children go, we'll always be right there with them, the way our parents are always right there with us.... It's not the distance in miles that makes your heart ache, it is the distance between visits!
Truth is, he won't be the same person and neither will I. We will both change. What I REALLY want is to cherish and love my partner through all the changes: for better, for worse, in sickness and in health, all the days of our lives. That way, it won't matter where he is, he'll be loved.