I know I'm "supposed" to say it, but every time I say I love you, I say it like it may be the last words you hear ... and I can make it through the day knowing that you, my children, will never have to wonder. I.LOVE.EACH.OF.YOU.DEEPLY
We would write our own ceremony, but I think I would like a reading from his mother taken from the bible. Either the Corinthians passage on love (because it is sweet) or something from the Song of Solomon. Although it is kinda dirty.