Your divorce process should help you build the future you're hoping for. Looking to what we want to see happen rather than focusing on what we're afraid of creates a positive and productive dynamic that elevates your discussions and provides room to HOPE that your future will be good.
The one who falls and gets up is so much stronger than the one who never fell!! I agree...so for all you "perfect" "I would never do THAT" type of people... guess what? Its takes more strength to get back up after its done. life is hard. Give grace.