Probably. Just a suggestion.. but you go right on ahead & make an even bigger ass of yourself. Shoot for the stars, sista; I'll be here with my feet firmly planted, NOT obsessing over my middle school boyfriend.. because we were something 'special' & we have 'a connection'. BITCH, PLEASE. You do not have a connection with him. You cyber fucking stalk him. Of fucking COURSE you know what's going on in his life (& that of his current wife). That's not called a 'connection' sweetie - that's called CREEPY.