Talkers are a dime a dozen. Doers are as rare as diamonds. The problem is that the ones who would probably do the most for you are also usually the quiet ones. Simply because they don't talk about things, they do things. There are exceptions of course. :)
I hate posts like this. You know what strong women do? They're strong in the face of adversity. And that looks different at different times for different people. What strong women CAN'T do is hold themselves to some BS standard created by someone who may not have encountered a fraction of the adversity you may have, only to judge other women. Lift each other UP!