Narcissists are notorious for using projection. This is their favorite tool. They use it to blame their partner for actions/beliefs that they are actually guilty of and then use it to play victim and gain sympathy from others. Often, the narcissist really believes what he has projected onto their partner is true. This is one reason it is so hard to get professional help for a narcissist.
i began to realize how important it was to be an enthusiast in life...if you are interested in something, no matter what it is, go at it at full speed ahead. Embrace it with both arms, hug it, love it and above all become passionate about it. Lukewarm is no good. Hot is no good either. White hot and passionate is the only thing to be" - roald dahl
Sometimes "real" is our desire for a particular and preferred frame of reference to materialize. Our expectations may cause us to spend years believing the frame will be realized only because we once had it and want it again. Real is when we cease to wait for something to frame up. Waiting =/= Living. ~Zest of Life
Who doesn't like watching She's the Man? I don't even have anything to get over right now and I want to do all this