It's sad that family, the people who should be the most caring and understanding seem to be the most intrusive and critical of your life and relationships. Regardless of that persons choices, it is their choice to make and if they are happy, and safe...why interfere? Of course you can't control people if you stay out of their business...hmmm
Relationship problems? Look for lessons within the conflict. ind out more about cleaning and decluttering your mind from the things that hold you back in Steve and Barries: "Declutter your Mind" self improvement book.