Too often we underestimate the power of a thoughtful question and a listening ear that’s fully present and focused. Although it’s a simple act, it may very well be the most powerful act of caring – one which has the potential to turn a life around. - via:
:( I'm not good at the saying what my heart doesn't really feel part...I'm more the kind of girl that when I'm hurt or mad I shut down & say the opposite of everything I truly feel :/ I am a work in progress :)
ACTUALLY, NOT ALWAYS--If you come up on a fool who hates being ignored, they can cause (more) non-law/rule-breaking drama for you. Face the bear, bravely, smartly, respectfully, honestly and directly, first. That might be all you need to put out the fire.