Language is not neutral. The words used by a person determine their attitude and experience. This is done through their ideology, which is expressed through language. Ideology can be considered as a world view, something that reveals attitude and identity about the person that is writing.
Please Please learn this as a truth..Parents best weapon is to stay calm, leave them wondering and let them build the worst in their mind....once you show your emotions or give a hint then their minds begin to figure out how to approach you and how to get around you...not personal just how the teen mind works
I've learned in life that there are people who excel at tearing others down rather than building them up. They tend to focus on your mistakes and flaws rather than on your achievements and talents. At the end of the day, their negative attitude is their problem; not yours. Never let a miserable person steal your joy and break your spirit. Simply choose to shine so bright, that your haters need shades!!