Most people will lose weight on a daily diet of calories, which is the total calorie count for all the food pictured here. (Nicole's note: I'm not advocating a 1500 calorie a day diet, merely trying to demonstrate portion sizes)
I learned the hard way that I cannot always count on others to respect my feeling. Even if I respect theirs. Being a good person doesn't . As for others, you can only choose to accept them or walk away.
Sometimes you have to be strong for yourself. Know that you're a good person and a good friend. What's meant to be will end up good and what's not won't. Love is worth fighting for, but sometimes you can't be the only one fighting.