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Ah, yes, the gaslighting that follows a normal reaction to an unacceptable comment (whether personal, racist, sexist, classist, or otherwise bigoted/bullying). You know damn well it wasn't funny.
"BLESSED ARE THE SINGLE-HEARTED, FOR THEY SHALL ENJOY MUCH PEACE... If you refuse to be hurried and pressed, if you stay your soul on God, nothing can keep you from that clearness of spirit which is life and peace. In that stillness you know what His will is." ~ Amy Carmichael
This was the reality I had to face when it was over and I realised that what I saw as good was actually causing me disharmony and suffering that I denied so that I could stay with him. If you feel caught up in a situation like this, or have left it and are rebuilding your life, I can help you move through and empower yourself so that you can have healthier experiences in the future. Contact me through my website aevepomeroy.com.a...
When someone makes you feel miserable, treating you badly. To the point you are sad, hurting and crying. It’s time to move on. Don’t even accept this. You will learn to get into a pattern to get treated as such. And this is unhealthy. So next time you are saying to yourself this is bs and you know your feeling are being hurt. It’s a good time to bail.