I need to keep reminding myself this and that as hard as it may be, it is time to let go and end it. I want to be loved by someone who does bring out the best in me and me bring out the best in him! That is exactly what love is supposed to do!
Careful. This is true, both for better and for worse. Here again, it's necessary to distinguish between "nice," and "good." Reducing love to an emotion or sentiment is a trap, because it can't make those distinctions. Assessing what is good requires objectivity, which in itself requires both faith and reason.