I have to remember this. Although, i NEVER claim perfection and have not always acted from love... I am not defined by how others treat me, not even those closest who I thought loved me unconditionally. I am defined by what God says.
I feel so bad for people who have to go through this! Like borrowing money to your child and telling them they won't have to pay it back, but then not telling your spouse about it. YIKES! Does not sound like a marriage i'd want to be in!