your husband should ALWAYS come first before your kids, your parents, friends, work, etc. He is second ONLY to God. Your kids will grow up and leave you for their wife/husband, and you'll fall behind them...your spouse is with you "till death do us part". Keep your priorities in check & you will live happily ever after! :)
I always tell her how greatful I am that God chose me to mother her. Even though she can't understand& she just smiles while I poor my heart out to her, it's important to me that she KNOWS how much I love her and how friggin awesome and beautiful she is.