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The "space between" couples is important. In order to see "the other" clearly we cannot compel them "too close" as it makes us cross-eyed. If they are too far away we cannot see them anymore either. There needs to be a "particular kind of closeness/distance" that combines comfort (security) and enough space (autonomy - adventure) to keep discovery and curiosity alive in the relationship. In this particular kind of space between you and the other, ignites "desire."