i was already getting beat up by TONY. the sarcasm resided in my mind only. i couldn't risk any of that then. but the stupid did not lie dormant in his. he elaborated freely and frequently... mostly lies that he actually thought i could be forced to believe... THAT was REALLY stupid. and for him to think just because someone loves you, they aren't allowed to tell others what you have done to them in private after you have used them all up, cheated, lied, stolen, and gossiped about them.