"You are meant to grow old with your spouse, not your children." -Our job is to teach our kids to be independent. Our spouse remains after our kids have built their own families (if you do it right)! I worry about the parents of spoiled children.
the hint box, take a night with your spouse and each create a “Hint Box?” Inside your Hint Box, be sure to include things that you LOVE. Then, whenever your spouse wants to do something nice for you, they can “take a hint” from your box full of ideas!