Look like a girl"-be innocent! Avoid make-up that causes you to forget your face. "Act like a lady"-be respectful. Add to the presence of the room. Women we held in night regard once upon a time. "Act like a man"-put yourself first. Men can avoid feeling of guilt, selfishness, and have the acceptance of society that women don't have (I'm a bit of a feminist). And finally "work like a boss"-be proud. Be unnerving. Be a boss! I don't think that one needs explaining.