Yes! Has always been one of my biggest peeves ever... you have no right to complain about something if you aren't even trying to do a thing to fix or get out of it. You are just allowing it to continue...and it will until you choose not to let it! By not doing anything, all you are doing is telling whoever's doing/controlling it, that it is alright and nothing is wrong.
Yes things only happen once in ur lifetime like..... falling IN love that is a once in a lifetime experience to find ur other soul to spend ur lifetime with and the next and the next. And to be able to do that is a once in a lifetime experience!!!!!