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Forget all the psycho-babel-bullcrap; deep down your heart's love for someone is real. But Never again will I ever allow others to have me think I am somehow codependent. Mourn it, let it go, move on, and be wiser for the next journey...never ever be confused again....
By "do so little for you" it really means someone who doesn't meet emotional needs you have deep down inside, reciprocate your love or service, or let you know you are deeply cared for - NOT by our society's means either (i.e. material things) but doing it in the way YOU genuinely respond to.... I have love to give regardless of my well being....Period