Mission statement: I say be so busy about LOVING OTHERS in your life that you have no time for hate, regret or fear! Take the focus off of YOU and put it on G-d. Then you can truly live a life of LOVE with no regrets.
"To heal a wound you need to stop touching it." Leave it alone, I get it but some wounds are open because they were never addressed corectly. like when a scar forms, there will always be a reminder of what happened and to teach what not to do again.