I like living. I have sometimes been wildly, despairingly, acutely miserable, racked with sorrow; but through it all I still know quite certainly that just to be alive is a grand thing. -- Agatha Christie
You can't just sit there and put everybody's lives ahead of yours and think that counts as love, you just can't!!!! Love this! Get what u need to get done for yourself first! If you've worked hard for something and going after what u want, then there's nothing wrong with being selfish if it means your working towards a dream of your own!