Life is not fair.... but Jesus is so let Him make all of your decisions. Most things we suffer in life sometimes we bring on ourselves as a result of bad choices. Put God first and choose the right thing. You will suffer less in life.
"Learning these 10 things is a good base with which to begin the tough preteen and teen years. Helping our children maneuver life is our jobs as parents, even if we haven't quite figured it all out ourselves yet."