Caring for yourself is key, if you don't do that you are not only miserable but you have nothing left to give anyone else. In order to care for anyone else, you must care for yourself first. Just be sure you remember to care for others whenever possible.
"For a seed to achieve its greatest expression, it must come completely undone. The shell cracks, its insides come out and everything changes. To someone who doesn't understand growth, it would look like complete destruction" - Cynthia Occellei