there is something comfortable about a billion stars held steady by a God who knows what he is doing. (i am reminded that since He is powerful enough to do that, i can easily trust Him with my life as well)
We feel angry and embarrassed when we are sucked in by someone who lies and manipulates. We resent the time, energy and love we offered them in good faith because it was all for nothing. They don& even appreciate what they took from us because it is.