Sir Nicholas Winton didn't say it, but it was his internal motto. Against all odds the then 29 year-old saved over 650, mostly Jewish, children living in Czechoslovakia from certain death in 1939. He is 105 today (12/2014) and didn't bother to tell anyone of his past until his wife found a scrapbook in their attic in 1988. The Queen knighted him in 2002 for his efforts, a movie has been made about his work called "Nicky's Family" and he is called 'Britain's Oskar Schindler'.
You didn't love her. You just didn't want to be alone. Or maybe, maybe she was good for your ego. Or maybe she made you feel better about your miserable life, but you didn't love her, because you don't destroy the person that you love."