You know. I have heard this a few times over the past few weeks. Finally a co-worker explained that this is a misconception of people who don't let themselves be run over or taken advantage of. I think I like this.
I think my boyfriend knows that look from me and that statement ALL too well. "no honey, i'm not mad at you... i'm mad at what you've done and said... so yes, indirectly, i'm very mad at you." lol but i love him and wouldn't trade him for the world :)