Hardest part of being an adult: I respect myself so I'm cutting you out of my life for as long as you act like this. I'm giving up on you. You don't want me I don't want you either, I don't need you in my life I'm done getting my hopes up for nothing.
Should you help someone who is reaching out and deeply-hurting? Absolutely. You should never have a relationship based on guilt over someone's poor choices. It is so easy to find ourselves in denial about someone's behavior because we so deeply wish they could escape their pain & suffering. But what we want for others doesn't work unless they want it for themselves. People must save themselves & you can only help a person who really wants it and is ready.
And I will never forget any of you or what you said or made me feel! I will never regret meeting you guys or even getting close to you, yes it may of hurt me more than ever in the end but you guys made me the person I am today and my memories with you all were some of the most unforgettable and best moments of my life and I want to thank you for that! I really hope one day I can talk to you guys agian! Love you all and miss you more than ever❤❤
Yep. So do yourself a favor when you realize this. Quit wasting your energy on someone who will not be accountable for their own repeated self chosen actions. Send them love and keep moving forward. It's not cruelty, it's self-love. And you deserve it.