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i began to realize how important it was to be an enthusiast in life...if you are interested in something, no matter what it is, go at it at full speed ahead. Embrace it with both arms, hug it, love it and above all become passionate about it. Lukewarm is no good. Hot is no good either. White hot and passionate is the only thing to be" - roald dahl
Exactly what I explained to my son this morning when he was complaining about being a safety patrol. I told him that things are not always about him and that it's about helping someone else. I let him know that being a safety patrol is a privilege denied to most and that he should have a positive outlook on it. :-)
Forget all the psycho-babel-bullcrap; deep down your heart's love for someone is real. But Never again will I ever allow others to have me think I am somehow codependent. Mourn it, let it go, move on, and be wiser for the next journey...never ever be confused again....