Pinterest • The world’s catalog of ideas
BuzzFeed Communityfrom BuzzFeed Community

Community Post: You Wish Your Bar Mitzvah Was This Fabulous

this is so true and the reason we often get our feelings hurt because we expect from others what we give

oh my goodness this is so true! Half of the things I use to fear and worry about had nothing to do with ME. I was carrying the burdens of family and friends. I thought that I was helping them if I tried to help them with whatever they asked for or needed me for but it turns out, I was hurting myself.

Why is this so hard to accomplish at a distance? Is it me? Do I not love you enough? Am I not trying enough? Because I feel like I am giving everything, and life is giving nothing back. I'm sorry we disagreed on such a stupid thing and it made us the way that it did, but it did. No matter how many nights you sleep alone, you'll never learn to sleep with me again unless you just do it.

Ask yourself this question: "Will this matter a year from now?" #don'tsweatthesmallstuff #quotes #richardcarlson #advice