if u cant manage to do a thing, then u dont get the thing. heres another example, bc i know u arent the brightest. its like if u want to join the military but ur too afraid of going to basic training then u dont get to be in the military. it's not like if u can convince a recruiter that ur literally actually too scared of basic training, then they're just gonna let u skip it and be in the military. uh no.