In the Voudon tradition, Erzulie Balianne (Erzulie the Gagged) - Silences (heals or calms) hearts. She keeps secrets or ensures that secrets will not be revealed. She helps people to forget past loves and overcome passionate emotions. Her horses tend to speak as if they have a gag in their mouth.
With everything that has happened to you, you can either feel sorry for yourself or treat what has happened as a gift. Everything is either an opportunity to grow or an obstacle to keep you from growing. You get to choose. ~ Wayne W. Dyer