when we make a change, it's so easy to interpret our unsettledness as unhappiness, and our unhappiness as a result of having made the wrong decision. our mental and emotional states fluctuate madly when we make big changes in our lives, and somedays we could tight-rope across manhattan, and other days we are too weary to clean our teeth, this is normal. this is natural. this is change. - jeanette winterson
Exactly. Because they dont mean anything by it. So let it go. Stop asking your girlfriends what it means...they dont know!!! No matter how knowledgable your friends seem, they arent guys. Stop driving yourself crazy and driving men away with this silliness. Just enjoy yourself and that will make you attractive.