You say my morals are old fashioned? I say it's a sign of being brought up properly. (actually you might be surprised how many people admire you for sticking to a higher standard-not al but there are some out there who do.)
Following graduation a father handed his daughter a bag with a copy of "Oh the Places You'll Go," by Dr Seuss in it. At first she just smiled and said that she loved that book. But he told her "No, open it up." ...On the first page she saw a short paragraph written by her kindergarten teacher. He told her "Every year, for the past 13 years, since the day you started kindergarten I've gotten every teacher, coach and principal to write a little something about you inside this book."
I Always Knew There Had To Be Instruction For Life Somewhere... except the hitting one. Either don't fight back, or after they hit you, you beat them down. It's an act of aggression if you hit first; it's self defense if you hit second.