a primer on privilege - We can not change whether or not we are involved in systems of oppression, only how we are involved. When a person does not have to think about how the world views them is a privilege.
Rape is never the victim's fault. No one "asks" to get raped. Women (and men) should be able to wear whatever they wish without being judged. Rape is always an act of violence and is the fault of the perpetrator, not the victim.