Contrary to popular belief, 8s can actually be very kind and thoughtful people, especially if they have done their enneagram work with Christ and been able to develope into some of their 2 energy. But unlike 2s, an 8 will not let you take advantage of them. Doing so often results in a side of the 8 that you especially do not ever want to see.
"There comes a point in your life when you realize who matters, who never did, who won't anymore, and who always will. And in the end you learn who is fake, who is true and who would risk it all for you."